A Safe Space for Your Story
Located in Kelowna, my counselling office is a quiet and private space intentionally created to help you slow down and settle in. My hope is that from the moment you arrive, you'll feel welcomed, safe, and supported.
Tracy Atkins
BSW, MACP, RCC (17167)
Counselling / Psychology / Mental Health
Professional Background
My name is Tracy Atkins and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor in the Province of British Columbia, with 19 years experience working with both older youth (18-20) and adults. I specialize in trauma, addiction, anxiety, depression, perfectionism, people pleasing, grief and loss, and emotional dysregulation.
I started my professional career after completing my Bachelors Degree in Social Work. I chose social work as I was keenly interested in understanding social issues, but also because I was passionate about deeply knowing people. Whether in my personal or professional life, it has always felt sacred when someone shares difficult parts of their lives or vulnerable parts of themselves with me.
My work in social work ultimately led me to pursue my career in clinical counselling. I had the privilege of working with people facing issues such as poverty, substance use, intergenerational parenting patterns, and mental health struggles. The more time I spent with my clients, the clearer it became that beneath every struggle was a human being with a story worth understanding. And what grew within me was a desire to work with people in a way that moved beyond managing coping responses and honored the wholeness of their stories. Thus, I completed my Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology.
Over the years, I have worked as a counselor in various counselling settings: A non-profit addictions agency, Northern Health and Interior Health’s Mental Health and Substance Use Teams, and most recently private practice. While these are different settings, my overarching approach remains the same.
Approach
I take a non-pathologizing approach and strive to ensure my clients feel seen and known for more than their struggles. Therapy sessions can involve the following: making sense of patterns you wish to address; processing emotions at a pace and way that feels right for you; working on building new ways of relating to yourself or others. I commit to being alongside you in this work, so you don’t have to feel alone.
I continue to be inspired by people’s capacity for growth and remain committed to expanding my professional knowledge and skills through attending clinically relevant trainings. Some of the modalities I am trained in include EMDR, CBT, EFT for individuals and couples, DBT. Please see the section of my website titled Credentials and Training for a more comprehensive list.
I also expanded my practice to include working with couples six years ago. As I sat with so many individuals it was evident to me that our closest relationships either help healing or create further wounding and often not from a place of malice, but from our own unresolved pain. This sparked a desire to pursue Emotion Focused Couples Therapy training, to help couples strengthen bonds, connections, and relationships. Couples therapy has become a very rewarding and meaningful part of my practice.
Credentials and Trainings
Degrees
- Bachelor of Social Work (UNBC 2000)
- Masters of Arts Counselling Psychology(Yorkville, 2017)
Additional Training
- 4 day intensive Cognitive Behavioural Therapy with Dr. David Burns
- 2 day Motivational Interviewing workshop
- 2 day Solution Focused Therapy
- 2 day DBT Training
- 6 week Trauma Informed Practice Course
- 4 day intensive Emotion Focused Therapy for individuals Level 1 and 2
- Core Skills and Externship for Emotion Focused Couples Therapy
- Emotion Focused Therapy for Trauma
- Working with Shame and Self Loathing in the Treatment of Trauma Online Course
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing EMDR
- Rewiring the Addicted Brain with the use of Attachment Based EMDR
Who I am Personally
As you can probably tell by my photo selection for the website, where I feel the most grounded is anywhere near a body of water. There is something about the vastness of the water combined with the sound of the waves and feel of sand on my bare feet, that reminds me that no matter what is going on in my life, that I am part of something much bigger. My nervous system can really slow down and be in the moment. I feel so grateful to live in our beautiful city where there are endless opportunities to be in nature, which I try to take advantage of as much as possible, outside of the therapy room.
Originally I am from Nova Scotia and while I haven't lived there for quite some time, I do think it strongly shaped who I am today. Growing up on the East Coast left me with a deep appreciation for people who are genuine, down-to-earth, and willing to show up for one another. Those qualities continue to influence the way I approach both life and my work.
Healing doesn't just happen through reprocessing pain, it happens through a felt sense of connection. Connection requires realness, not just from you but from me too. Thus, while therapy will be professional and focused on you, my hope is that it also feels like two relatable human beings having a conversation.
Things I Hope you Know
You may be feeling nervous and may not know exactly where to begin. That's Okay. The first step does not require you to have all the answers. It's simply beginning.
I invite you to come as you are, whether you are carrying something heavy or just feeling a little bit off. Sometimes people have the notion that therapy is only for "big problems". The truth is, to struggle is to be human.
If you are trying to quantify whether or not your struggles are "big enough for therapy" please know that therapy is for everyone and you deserve to be heard too.